I know it’s a classic picture, probably very over done but as a young girl it was what I thought kissing was like! Really, I have mentioned before that I love musicals and the old romantic comedies, well there is no denying is there that this looks like a scene from an MGM Musical (minus the technicolour)! I always wanted to be swept off my feet, for my leg to go up in that classic pose, now looking at it it’s almost like he has her in a head lock hmmm….Don’t think I’d like that!
So why the kiss picture? Why do you think? I have a my second date with nice guy tomorrow night, still unsure as to what we are gonna do, there will be a movie in there, which means sitting in the dark for a couple of hours. I’m glad I don’t know what we are doing, it’s nice not having to make plans, that’s kinda romantic in an old fashioned way isn’t it?
Now if you read my post about the last date you’ll remember it went really well until I ran away home (just call me Cinders, didn’t lose a shoe though!) So tomorrow evening I am gonna have to bite the bullet and kiss him! Now I like him, and we get on really well, we talk on the phone for ages and text and mail and all those things, but….. ! But I’m scared, scared I’ll be a crap kisser, scared he will, scared there will be no spark, scared there will be a spark and where that might lead me! Basically I’m scared!
So I’m thinking of the , “hey, how are you?” hug and kiss, at the start of the date so it’s out of the way! Otherwise it’s gonna be nibbling away at my tummy all night, stopping me from relaxing. I am aware btw how silly this is, and that we should have snogged at this stage, I just feel 16! So tomorrow evening I’ll post again, letting you know if I’ve chickened out or not, I keep changing my mind, will I, won’t I? The treadmill in the gym is the worst place for me, I think far too much as I walk!
Midget Wrangler 
Do you really think you should have kissed by now? maybe I’m old fashioned! Peraps the e-conection speeds up the intimacy process – you know him more than you would do on a first date otherwise.
you are so old fashioned its sweet, of course we should have kissed! Sure three dates is apparently the shagging date!!!!
I am not saying it is for me, but generally any sooner than three dates and you are a bit of a slapper!
When did you first kiss your partner?
I believe my first words to him were “gimme your tongue” so I am indeed a slapper. But I married him!!?
Good luck with the second date!
He he he, Ash, it’s true what they say about the quiet ones isn’t it? 🙂
Ah, well if you married him that’s ok! But remember I’m never getting married again!
Thanks, it’ll be grand if I can just relax!
Well, it’s different when you’re 17, surely. Actually I had to chase him for some time, mostly because I’d been sleeping with his best friend…
but I married him in the end too. So I’ve never had adult sex for the first time. I thought there’d be less slapperiness!
I’ve been with my guy years, we got together in our late teens when he stumbled over to me in a nightclub after literally being PUSHED by a friend of mine and we ended up glued to each other for the night. The background on this is that we had been eyeing each other up for about a year but there were others involved, blah blah, so everyone was sick of us mooning after each other at that stage!
Best of luck with the date MW, I’m sure it will go well. Don’t be too paranoid about the kiss, these things seem worse than they actually are in the end.